Girlfriend talks to Ex?

[LiquidGx]

Where is the slap a ho option? Just kidding.

My wife kept in touch with her ex when we first started dating, even got to meet the guy one night we were out and he needed a jump. I got his neon started, and that was the last time she ever talked to the guy. He called a few times but she never returned the calls and that was that.

[Grace]

Originally Posted by Big Rob

Although, I agree to a certain extent with what Grace just said, I say good for you. She can call her first ex and have him pick her up. Don't waste another minute of your time on this girl. Move on.

Stalker!! Back to Norcal!

okok back on topic.

[zeroscythe]

Originally Posted by Big Rob

Although, I agree to a certain extent with what Grace just said, I say good for you. She can call her first ex and have him pick her up. Don't waste another minute of your time on this girl. Move on.

yup.. some girls are scandalous bro, they'll always wonder if the grass is greener on the other side.. never content with what they have.. if anything tell her ur trading up to someone better, dont waste your time

[MJION]

Good for you OP! Glad you were able to get out early while you could, and in a pretty slick manner I may add...

I recently got out of a 3 year relationship- and delt w waaaay to much BS, i should have seen it coming in the first 3 months into it...

Regardless I learned my lesson and so did she....
The longer you hold on and let things slide the worse it gets, and harder to let go...

Some girls have confidence issues and need Men to validate that whether they actually act on those or not.. To me, texting others and BS I will not tolerate...

Then they loose the one they actually care about and the table have turned....
My ex tried everything to get me back and is still trying, but there is no way I can trust her ever again, she killed that one...

[Basheer]

Well, that sucks. With this, I think it's an issue of respect. She doesn't respect her relationship with you, and she doesn't respect you. If she did, she would just tell her ex's or whoever was trying to contact her to give you two some space. Instead, she gave into not one, but two guys. It just shows what kind of girl she is. If I were you, I would just say "I don't need a girl like you, I can find someone who has respect for herself and others". A person like that will not be able to settle with one man. Unless she gets her act straight (which almost never happens), it's just going to be a continuous cycle for her. Date one guy, break up. Date another, break up. Engage one guy, break up. Marry one guy, divorce. All of the break ups will be due to trust issues and lack of respect.

Oh well. I'm not sure if I will ever understand the point of this "dating" crap.

[FrozenInferno]

She will probably play some head games now. Like i still like you and want to be with you and then try and get back at you for what you did.

[airriickz]

+2 Goodjob man. Theres hella other girls who'd love to sit in your G and be your gf :P

Haha

[[Rush]]

Originally Posted by Grace

It may have made you feel better for the short term, but that was the easy way out. One day you'll care enough for someone to sit down and talk things through without emotion. Trying to hear what the other person has to say while you're hurting is a very hard thing to do.

There was a reason she talked to the ex. If she was completely engaged with you, she wouldn't have let it go to the depths that it did. You need to examine what went wrong with you two so you don't fall into the same trap with the next girl.

Originally Posted by Big Rob

Although, I agree to a certain extent with what Grace just said, I say good for you. She can call her first ex and have him pick her up. Don't waste another minute of your time on this girl. Move on.

As weird as it sounds .. I agree with both!

IMO, the OP was smart to walk away from this girl. While it's obvious that she had some problems with the OP, she clearly showed her own immaturity and instability by doing what she did -- all the texting behind the OP's back.

If she'd been 'worth it' -- as in, a woman who is experienced enough and mature enough to handle herself -- the texts never would have gone so far. After a few days of going back and forth with her ex, she would have realized the 'right' thing to do was sit down and talk with the OP, about whatever was driving her to pursue contact with her ex. If SHE is the one with the issues, then SHE should be the one to sit the OP down and initiate a discussion. It's not fair to expect the OP to be a mind-reader, and some girls (myself included) are masters at disguising when something is bothering them.

Good luck to the OP and I hope the next one has her head on straight!

[FrozenInferno]

Originally Posted by airriickz

+2 Goodjob man. Theres hella other girls who'd love to sit in your G and be your gf :P

Haha

Whats that qoute....oh yeah thats it



"BOOST GETS YOU LAID"


lol live it up

[lostsk8r]

Good job man, I laughed hard when you said now you have two ex boyfriends, good game.

[eljoker]

Originally Posted by Grace

One day you'll care enough for someone to sit down and talk things through without emotion. Trying to hear what the other person has to say while you're hurting is a very hard thing to do.

This is so true, call it what you want but grace is correct on this. Im only 19 and ive already had to do this and its not easy but it shows how much you care about someone.

on the side note..... burn!!!!!!! by the op to the girl i mean EX girl.

[lostsk8r]

Yeah I've sat down and listened to what my x said when I just took her to a nice hotel (700 a night) for 3 day mini vacation, after that she told me the weekend before she was drunk and almost had sex with another guy (she wasnt wet enough), boy was that rough to sit down and listen to.. but that wasnt the worst of it, you think it got easier after that but hot damn, give them an inch! good thing you dropped her now.

[G35 Mass]

This very subject seemed to have caused the end of my current relationship.

[jayelleseven]

Originally Posted by Grace

It may have made you feel better for the short term, but that was the easy way out. One day you'll care enough for someone to sit down and talk things through without emotion. Trying to hear what the other person has to say while you're hurting is a very hard thing to do.

There was a reason she talked to the ex. If she was completely engaged with you, she wouldn't have let it go to the depths that it did. You need to examine what went wrong with you two so you don't fall into the same trap with the next girl.

That was a tough day. I'm sorry you had to go through it.

Naw, no guy or girl needs to waste more of their time with someone who was already a waste of time and effort.

Plus women have a bad habit of sugar coating the situation to try to make themselves look better or someone else not look so bad; just speaking from experience. Its makes it so much more difficult to get the real reasons as to why ppl do what they do--cheat, lie, get caught up with someone else while in a relationship etc etc.

[jayelleseven]

Originally Posted by MJION

Good for you OP! Glad you were able to get out early while you could, and in a pretty slick manner I may add...

I recently got out of a 3 year relationship- and delt w waaaay to much BS, i should have seen it coming in the first 3 months into it...

Regardless I learned my lesson and so did she....
The longer you hold on and let things slide the worse it gets, and harder to let go...

Some girls have confidence issues and need Men to validate that whether they actually act on those or not.. To me, texting others and BS I will not tolerate...

Then they loose the one they actually care about and the table have turned....
My ex tried everything to get me back and is still trying, but there is no way I can trust her ever again, she killed that one...

Haha no way, sounds JUST like the last relationship I was in. Lucky for me it was only about 3 months..not 3 years! Damn man, 3 yrs. Girl wouldn't let go time after time I told her to let me be; wonder how tough it musta been for you after 3 yrs. Oh well, the past is the past!

Cute girls are a dime a dozen..its just a bitch finding one's without the confidence/insecurity issues. They never feel pretty or wanted enoughhh ahhhh