It is a crappy situation by any means. Hopefully he contacts you soon.

 

yes hopefully he will,

 

i never get this.. "personal/family issues"..
WOW.. it's not like he's the only on the face of this planet with that problem..

I feel bad for the OP..
the people who says that they would back him up.. why don't you all send the OP a refund and get the $$$ back from your friend?

 

why should i help the OP if hes going to threaten someone with "friends over there" thats just not right.

 

Damn, str8 up ****ty situation here. I don't give a fock how good a guy he has been in the past, this doesn't look good. I'd be flippin after a week of no contact, not to mention almost 3months. Come on guys, stop defending this idiot. OP, take any steps necessary, if he's had personal issues he'll understand that he should have been man enough to communicate better with you after taking your money. Pile this up onto his list of "personal issues", and he'll prioritize realizing he isn't the only human being on this earth with "ISSUES"

 

then you are only backing him up 99.9%..

 

Frist off I've bought stuff from him and received it fine. Second, we're talking about a front bumper here so I don't know how that person can claim he's screwing someone for a couple thousand dollars. Third it was through ebay, why didn't you just put in a dispute with ebay/paypal/credit card company. If it's truly a fraudulent deal you would have gotten you're money back (especially if he fails to reply to the claims) if you put in the claim within 30 days.

 

^^ he was waiting for a new bumper, and i didnt mind waiting for this one like a month or so, i wasnt in a big hurry, and he was replying all the time before, then after the time period that i could put a dispute on had expired he stopped replying to me, and then i started to worry about it,

 

im not trying to threaten anybody, im just saying if i knew where he would livei would have someone go to him and talk about it, because it seems he doesnt want to reply to me,

If it was like 100$ i would long time forget about it, but this is 415$,

what would you do in my place?

 

alex is a great guy. sorry to hear you guys are having problems. im sure hes not doing this intentionally although i know that doesnt help the situation. hopefully you 2 can work things out soon.

 

Really shouldn't be much to work out and family problems is no fawking excuse. Family problems didn't stop him from trying to sell the bumper so family problems shouldn't be an excuse for not either sending the bumper or refunding the money. Being a good guy can really change once you **** on someone.

 

this situation that the sellers in doesn't look that great. I understand he have family issues and all that, shout we all got problems issues and shiet. who don't. I would never sale stuff and do this to the OP. shoot id even be scared if my stuff i mailed out don't even get delivered on time and im the seller. this is not cool and i feel for you Paul i do hope you get your shiet soon.

 

thanks a lot to those people who support me in this,

 

If anyone knows him, can you please contact him and tell him to contact me or talk to him about this situation,

thanks,

 

Maybe someone that actually can contact him do so that you locals guys can help clear his name and help get this resolved.