Can anyone give me some tips on how to get the brown speaker connector off the Bose 6.5" door speaker. I can't seem to get it off, and I don't want to break it. I have an 05 coupe. Thanks!

Finally got them. What a PITA. I got them off by pushing in on the tab (the lower you push on them the better) with one screwdriver while prying the whole connector up on the side using another screwdriver.

On to sound deadening.