Are you married? I am happily married, it dosent mean I don't look at single friends that have the freedom to do what ever they want when ever they want, don't have a family to support so they have tons of cash in the bank. Get married have kids all of those things are gone it dosen't mean a guy isn't happy its just a hell of alot different.

 

hahaha...think you misunderstood me there...
I just found it funny how you first say: PS, dont get married, followed by: I am happily married. Kinda contradicting, no? thus my sarcastic reply of: you sure sound happily married!

as for me, I have successfully prolonged the topic of marriage (wedding) to the point where my girlfriend just doesnt bother me with it anymore. It's a system thats been working for us and hey, why fix what aint broke, right?

We've lived together now, common law for 4+ years, dating for 7+ years. Sure, it's almost the same as married, but without the commotion and bulls%&# of the actual wedding, church, marriage classes, shower, engagement ring, etc. When and if kids get in the picture, I'll consider it then.

Personally, say what you will, but I'd rather have 2 sets of rims for my car than a diamond on her finger

 

I know it was totally contradicting in the same sentence. I still say don't get married

 

^This guy knows what he's talking about. Let's all take his advice!

 

the church did.

at least 5 of my close friends all interracial marriages had to go to classes. but were all catholic. according to the priest it is a requirment.