Ahhh! I c now. I was in that situation too when I was in school. It's NOT fun.

Here's what I think you should do. Get your priorities straight. You have girl problems? That should be second on your mind. You need to take care of yourself first. Get yourself in better shape financially. Once you do that, then you can worry about other things.

Besides. Girls are expensive. Maybe this is a good thing that's happening. I've always believed things happen for a reason, and in the end it'll all work out. Of course you'll have to put yourself on the right track for that to happen.

im feeling more depressed just reading this thread. i wish i had some words to make you feel better, but im in a rut myself.

and girls are very expensive..damn if you had a business it would be a good to write them off on taxes.

Hey Empz,

Not to be the insensitive pragmatist, but you have US$60K+ worth of cars. Maybe, um, unload one or two?

Good luck!