im with ya..i got a black coupe with less than 3k on it and more swirls in the paint than a dairy queen.. my ride was hit over memorial day weekend and required some body work and a part of me was glad cuz i got a new side panel that was covered in swirls..this paint is way to delicate..

 

www.zainobros.com

www.zaino.ca

http://www.nsxsc.com/nsexcitement/waxtest.html

I don't wan't to sound like an ad, but read the info, buy the stuff, follow the directions to a tee, and be swirl free and happy. The third link is actually a link from another forum, where a fella found, much to his surprise, that the really expensive stuff he was using, didn't even come close- good reading.
btw, I agree wrt to the paint- and like you dally, I had a sealant applied. I got caught in that april ice storm, got absolutely trashed with salt spray from 18 wheelers, and the front end of the car took a beating. But as for swirls and scratches, zaino will fix those in a blink. see other thread on zaino in this forum.

DB