Say if i got OEM coupe 19's, if i put the same size rubber on both(ex. 245/40/19), would it still cause a problem for my car, or just no staggered period. someone told me u can do staggered if the tire sizes are the same, sounds wierd to me, but just lookin for other's opinions, thanx

You can have staggered offsets on your wheels and use same size tires all around without any problems. This is commonly done if you want same size all around but larger lip in the rear for example.

i thought that the reason that ppl dont go staggered was because the different weight of the wheels would throw off the AWD system...a member on the forums pulled out the fuse for the AWD and runs a staggered setup so i believe that would be the only alternative

Just pull the AWD fuse and you will be fine to run staggered.

yeah, i wanted to pull the fuse, but my pops won't let me, whenever i wanna do something to my car, i always run it by my dad, and usually he's ok with the stuff i do, but pulling the awd fuse is a no-no, thats why i was asking bout the same size tire on a say 19x8 and 19x8.5 wheel, thanx guys