someone who obviously didn't like me puched my passenger door and dented it in the crease i don't want to make an insurence claim, are there any easy tools or tip to get it out?

 

I'd take it to a paintless dent removal shop and let them take a look at it. I live in Atlanta and had a couple of dents pulled out of my '07 tundra for a around $160.00. After they were done, you'd never know there were dents in the fender. Being that it is on the crease, I'm not sure what a paintless dent removal shop can do, but that would be my first option. If there is no damage to the paint, then you might get lucky.