hmmm...i changed my alarm mode to where it doesnt honk anymore when i lock it...but now the lights dont flash when i unlock the car...is there a setting i activated by mistake or what...any help would be appreciated...

 

There are six modes, but only two can be user set. You went frome mode 1 to 2. The dealer can set the other modes (first time should be free). Sounds like you want mode 4 - Lock = 2 flash, 0 horn, Unlock = 1 flash, 0 horn.

Here is the rest of the alarm list:
Hazard and Horn Reminder Mode (key fob allows you to choose between modes 1 & 2, but there are 4 others)
Mode 1 (C Mode): Lock = 2 flash, 1 horn /// Unlock = 1 flash, 0 horn
Mode 2 (S Mode): Lock = 2 flash, 0 horn /// Unlock = 0 flash, 0 horn
Mode 3: Lock = 0 flash, 0 horn /// Unlock = 0 flash, 0 horn
Mode 4: Lock = 2 flash, 0 horn /// Unlock = 1 flash, 0 horn
Mode 5: Lock = 2 flash, 1 horn /// Unlock = 0 flash, 0 horn
Mode 6: Lock = 0 flash, 1 horn /// Unlock = 1 flash, 0 horn

Everything that is possible to change is listed in this thread:
https://g35driver.com/forums/showthr...highlight=mode

I printed out the list and asked the dealer to give me the options that are applicable (not all were).

--sd_diver

 

couldnt have said it better