just put 25mm on the back and 20mm spacers on the front,think it looks a lot better.

That is the recommended spacer size. Looks good.

Urbanenginner, I was thinking about putting 25s on front 30s on rear H&R DRM spacers. Do you know off hand if those dimensions are ok for stock suspension on stock 19 inch rays? I didnt know if that needed to have fenders rolled for spacers of that size on the rear or not. Any Ideas? thanks.

No idea to be honest, I've heard of the 20-25 being no questions asked though.

Depending on your tire size, 30mm should fit on back without any issues. Compress the suspension on one of your wheels and measure how much room you currently have from the fender.