Im trying to get my offset for my wheels to fit more even with the outside of the wheel wells. Anyone use a good kit for this? I've heard that wheel spacers can sometimes be rough on the axel? True? Also will I need to get extended lugs with wheel spacers? How hard is install for these?

By the way, Im considering a drop with some S Techs if that makes any difference with the setup.

 

I wouldn't say rough on the axle, but spacers over time can be rough on your hub.
However I've run spacers on my previous cars with no problems, but then again every car make-the manufacturer, has different strengths in wheel hubs, for example, I had 15mm spacers on my 04 rsx-s for 3 years and it ran strong along with it being nearly slammed.. and I took that car auto x-ing and it held up through a lot of 'abuse'.

Go with Ichiba v2 spacers or project kics spacers. You can get either one here from our vendors, in the marketplace via private sales, or from websites, one off the top of my head is: www.evasivemotorsports.com

Spacers are easy to install, if you don't know how to install them, sell me your wheels, and I'll let you drive on some steelies.

Good luck OP.