the connector is broken a little i should still be able to squeeze its jus VERY hard cause of tight space if any one have any experience renoving wire harness on a hr g35 08 i literally rarley see anybody who has a Hr

 

Angle head pair of needle nose pliers, and a small flat blade screwdriver.

Don't worry about breaking the harness side of it worse since you're going to need to buy a replacement one and solder/splice it onto the car.