I pull my ebrake and the car just eases to a stop slowly...is it loose? or is the abs also tied to the ebrake? Is there a way to fix that so the tires lock up when i pull it?

The e-brake on the G sucks you have to pull it up all the way for the wheels to lock

Yea, mine still never lock, even up all the way, is it loose?

yeah

It can be adjusted - do a search on here as this has been discussed and I posted a section of the FSM on how to adjust it. And, no, it is not connected to the ABS system. It is a separate cable-actuated brake shoe inside the rear rotor.